I can relate with almost all of it, but I need to work on them. Most of the time I get annoy when he talks about his ex's, but I talk a lot about my own ex's, so I really need to shut up. And most of the time I don't say sorry easily after a fight.
I love don't be the perfect one, be the right one.
I think so many times people try to make themselves into something their not, and lose themselves to a relationship that they think is perfect, but it's not because they're not themselves. Perfect is too strong of a word... right is better.
"When you get hurt just forgive and forget." Wtf? No. Talk, describe why you're hurt, clarify it, ask her/him to not hurt you again, forgive, but why should you forget? - It happened, it's part of you, it HURT you. Don't just shut up and smile while pretending the pain will go away.
thanks, i neede this so much: I've just printed out two copies. one for me, and the one for the person i'm in a relationship with. And maybe i should print a third copy, for the refrigiretor, so that we both can always take a look at it! have a nice day Sara C.
I love em. Rock solid advice. Except 11. Sure don't talk about your stupid ex's on the first date but past relationships shape you. Are you gonna talk about your childhood? The college years. I think its a bad look trying to avoid any topic. If you ignore them they are gonna work their way in somehow.
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This is so true. I couldn't agree more on the tips to make the relationship working. Being honest with your feelings to your partner does the trick. You can't say yes when it's no. You just have to say what you feel and what hurts you.
Thanks for sharing. I think we just need to be honest with ourselves in what we're wanting. I like your honesty, what you have mentioned rings true and has given me some pointers to work on!
I can relate with almost all of it, but I need to work on them. Most of the time I get annoy when he talks about his ex's, but I talk a lot about my own ex's, so I really need to shut up. And most of the time I don't say sorry easily after a fight.
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ReplyDeleteI love don't be the perfect one, be the right one.
ReplyDeleteI think so many times people try to make themselves into something their not, and lose themselves to a relationship that they think is perfect, but it's not because they're not themselves. Perfect is too strong of a word... right is better.
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ReplyDelete"When you get hurt just forgive and forget."
ReplyDeleteWtf? No. Talk, describe why you're hurt, clarify it, ask her/him to not hurt you again, forgive, but why should you forget? - It happened, it's part of you, it HURT you. Don't just shut up and smile while pretending the pain will go away.
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ReplyDeletethanks, i neede this so much: I've just printed out two copies. one for me, and the one for the person i'm in a relationship with. And maybe i should print a third copy, for the refrigiretor, so that we both can always take a look at it!
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I love em. Rock solid advice. Except 11. Sure don't talk about your stupid ex's on the first date but past relationships shape you. Are you gonna talk about your childhood? The college years. I think its a bad look trying to avoid any topic. If you ignore them they are gonna work their way in somehow.
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ReplyDeleteOctavianusv invaded Egyptian in 30.B.C. With the Suicide of Cleopatra, Egyptian was incorporated to Roman, and the cultrue of oid egypt went to over.
A recently research have studied that Cleopatra has protected her party cocktail dress not just relied on her beautyTop Organza Wedding Dress. The techniques she used has cheap wedding dresses difference with International relations in the morden world. This is where her wisdom reflected.
I AM GUILTY OF NUMBER 10... Oh I feel just awful reading this. I do it all the time! I have to work on it.. but damn.. the past was gooood! See?! I'm doing it again!
ReplyDeleteHey! can't decide what flower to bye her, will click here http://www.top10point5.com/2011/08/top-105-romantic-flowers.html or just check out our top ten list
ReplyDeleteI like the photo actually, Silly but sexy. I find some of the tips quite hard in keeping a relationship working. Anyway, this is a short but informative topic. There's so much to learn from your blog.
ReplyDeleteI like the No. 12 - Give And Take. It's fair for both sides.
ReplyDeleteit's just perfect.. all that mistakes can broke all that you build..
ReplyDeleteWhere is the logics in this?
ReplyDeleteHOW do you combine "2. Don't lie" and "4. stay sweet" with "7. never say okay even when it's not"?
And "3. Keep communication open"... yeah great, but "6. never talk about break-ups" and "5. when you get hurt just forgive and forget"...
I mean... what? How are you supposed yo stay sweet all the time? thats false! That is lying to your partner....
I say: 1waytokeeprelationshipworking:
1. Be fucking honest.
and if it don't work out naturally when you both are honest - DON'T STAY TOGETHER...!
dudes.... "american dream" bullshit.
I love this blog btw, just don't like this list...
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ReplyDeleteSome relationships get stuck in peaceful coexistence, but without truly relating to each other and working together.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing. I think we just need to be honest with ourselves in what we're wanting. I like your honesty, what you have mentioned rings true and has given me some pointers to work on!
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