Wednesday, April 2, 2014

i just can't seem to fall in love

Le Love Blog Story Can't Seem To Fall In Love Love All Around But Not Me It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all Photo Girl Sitting in Car Ride Summer Sunglasses Roadtrip Untitled by emma louise., on Flickr
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Sometimes I think there is something wrong with me.
I just can't seem to fall in love.
Now a lot of people would tell me not to worry.
That I'm so young and I'll find someone eventually.
But I can't help to notice all the people around me falling head over heels for each other and I'm just here waiting. Waiting to feel something, anything at all.

Truth be told I've never been in a serious relationship. A couple of dates here and there, endless text conversations and random hook ups at parties. But never in a relationship. I don't know maybe it's me. Maybe I'm not able to commit, I might been having way to high expectations or maybe I just haven't met anyone special yet. But I'm getting tired, oh so tired of seeing everyone else writing their never ending love novels while I'm sitting here with my pamphlet of short stories not even worthy a single glance. At this point I wouldn't even mind getting my heart broken over and over until it's in a thousand pieces because at least then I would be experiencing some kind of love. Even the most excruciating, hard aching and painful love beats not feeling anything at all. Like they say "It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all."

- S


  1. It will come, don't worry :) And that person will have been worth waiting for.

  2. I am in the same boat as you! I hope that one day, I will experience this foreign feeling of being in love with someone.

  3. 2 years ago I was in the same position as you, in my twenties and never experienced love. That changed. One night I meet someone who I slowly slowly fell in love with, no rush, no expectations. So, dont worry!!! When you find your someone, it will all be worth it.

  4. When you can't seem to fall in love, is when real love comes knocking quietly. Let the universe handle it! :)

  5. It's true as they say, when you stop looking - that's when it will happen. Might sound like a cliché, but honestly, that's what happens. And sometimes it's good and sometimes you feel irritated because you don't have time for love right now. Either way, it will happen.

  6. I totally feel you! I'm thinking the same way about me - never been in a serious relationship, never experienced true love.. but I keep hoping that one day I will. Nobody knows when it will happen, so I guess we just have to wait and see what life will bring to us.. Don't lose hope! <3

  7. We're so alike! I have never been in a loving relationship. I don't even know if I'm loveable.Even my parents don't show their love to me. I have neverheard "I love you" from them. Me and my father are so distant that I'm waiting patiently for the person who I can feel safe with. I'm that Insecure. So just think that there are worse cases than yours and you'll feel better about yourself.

  8. You must have not been looking.


  9. Haha, knowing you, and me, the last thing you would probably want to hear is, 'be patient'. But I'll give up my little secret, its so much easier when you're so busy you have no time. I have to admit, thats me around 5 months ago, I was really desperate to find some sort of a connection with anyone. But now, that I'm so busy I can barely keep my feet on the one spot, I've realised I'm moving ahead in life, and even though I haven't found the chemistry I wanted, I feel like im getting closer :)

    1. ask her out silly, spend some time together

    2. That's right, be patient. Thank you for reminding me.

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