Thursday, June 30, 2011

i'm not going anywhere.

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Something my amazing boyfriend sent me: *

"I like you a whole ton, cuz you accept me for me and would never try to change me, you make me do my homework so that I can get good grades, you got me to fill out scholarships, because I know I can just be myself with you and you'll be totally happy with that, because you accept my flaws, because even though I'm afraid of being awkward I know even if I do something awkward you won't make me feel bad, because you ask what I think of your friends cuz you want me to like them, because you came up to my work before we were dating, because you've been there for me when I needed you for like the past 2 years, because you listen to me talk about Mary and don't get jealous or say stupid things like "you're not over her" type stuff, because you don't put up with bullshit so I know 99.98% of the time you won't give me any, because I don't have to constantly worry about upsetting you, because you are beautiful and you know it but you don't want to sound like a bitch self centered person, because you don't fish for compliments, because you really couldn't care less what other people think, because you did that drama thing in subway yelling about a moose, because you play cod and don't get upset that I played while you were doing homework, because you've made me 2 mix cd's, because I feel very well like when we hug, because you remind me that you like me daily, even though I'd have to be a complete idiot to forget :) "

A couple texts I've woken up to:
"Good Morning Scarlett Hunt, have I ever mentioned that I like you? Well in case I haven't, I like you, very much, please never leave. THANKS - Kennen"
"Scarlett... I love you"

I think that last one is my favorite. He rarely tells me he loves me because he believes that saying it too much will make it less special, and he's right. Because I hear it so few times, I still get overwhelmed with happiness any time he tells me. I think it's a technique that everyone should use.

So I'm 18 and I've found true, pure, honest love. I'm going to do my best to keep it. Kennen means more to me than sleep, and I LOVE sleep. He's the only boy I've ever been able to picture myself marrying, though we've both agreed that we don't want to do anything that serious until we're out of college. We agree on most important things, and we balance each other well. He helps me be goofy and happy while I help him get down to business. We also know how to keep friends while being in a relationship. If I were to give someone advice about love without having them ask me a specific question, I'd tell them to make sure that you can find the right balance, not just with each other but with the rest of the world. You have to keep other people around because you don't want to be left alone if something goes wrong. Also, age doesn't matter. You can find love no matter how old you are. It may not be the same kind of love that someone else finds, but you can certainly have your own. And when you do find it, hold on to it. It's the best feeling you'll ever have. If it's taken away, remember that you can find joy again. Very few people marry their first love, and I certainly won't be one of those few, but I think 3rd love is just right for me.

I love you Kennen, and I'm not going anywhere.

* reader submission


  1. "He rarely tells me he loves me because he believes that saying it too much will make it less special, and he's right. Because I hear it so few times, I still get overwhelmed with happiness any time he tells me."

    I can totally relate. :)

  2. I'm sorry, but this doesn't sounds real. More like a tale out of an 18 years old's imagination of what the perfect boyfriend would say....

  3. Actually, my boyfriend and I tend to go the other way. We say I love you so many times a day that it feels natural. I think that placing such a high distinction on one phrase, when that phrase should be the most obvious thing in the relationship (why be in a relationship with someone you don't love?) seems off. I love my boyfriend, and I want him to know that. All the time. Saying something less doesn't make it more special, it just makes the recipient more surprised when you do, and I don't necessarily see the point in saying I love you so few times that it feels special or exciting every time you do. For me, it's the most natural thing in the world, and I want my boyfriend to know that.

  4. I feel stupid now, but aren't every text posted on LeLove reader submissions?

  5. why don't you show us a picture of you and your boyfriend on this blog? :D so curious :)

  6. You are not the Girl I thought You were le. I thought You were a 24y old girl from Carlifornia..

    But sence love has no limits I know this will reach Her anyway...

    I just want to say that I still Love You, and think about You everyday LL. You just have to work on making Your good side stronger and lose Your grunge/drugromantic side! I want the real LL back, the freckles girl that always had a smile and was really classy..
    You are sutch an Intelligent girl, dont waste it baby!
    We will always be tied Together with a bond, no matter We want it or not...
    And things are not always what it seems or looks...;)

    I Love You LL, and have a real good
    Happy Birthday!

    No matter what.. (almost)

    Love E Sweden

  7. I agree with Kajsa. Seriously, I wouldn't say it better.

    Me and my boyfriend says that we love each other all the time. I can't even count how many times we say these magic words in one day and it feels just as wonderful every time. As Kajsa wrote: love my boyfriend, and I want him to know that. All the time.

    And, no age doesn't matter. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 24. :)
    Take care!

  8. 3rd love is right for me too!

  9. I think love and how one expresses it is not cookie cutter. People's personalities, likes and dislikes are different - so naturally how they choose to express it will be different. In general, I think it is just when you feel completely in sync with someone. =)

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  10. SO beautifull <3


  11. You could view it in the way that saying you love someone as seldom as possible makes it more special. Or you could say that telling someone you love them as often as possible, whenever you get a chance, is a constant reminder of how you feel about them and lets them know that they mean everything to you. That it makes sure they never forget.

  12. OMG, the comment by anon that says that its just a perfect story concocted by an 18 year old's mind.

    Have you not found love yet?

    I found my fiance when I was 19. He is my first love. and the ONLY one I will ever love. Not everyone is blinded by love. Scarlett is a brave young woman. If you don't give love a chance now, when can you?

    So please, don't say that just because YOU haven't found love.

  13. beautiful! <3

    pls visit mine and drop some comments thanks! :)

  14. In exactly the same situation as you. Thanks for posting everything that I wanted to say.

  15. @ the second anon.
    I was asking myself the same thing :P

  16. Sounds like a dreamboat because that's what every girl wants to see...the name of his ex paraded around in a love letter to you. I can only imagine what it's like in reality. There's a difference between controlling your jealousy and being a doormat. You deserve better and you'll figure that out once the blinders come off.

  17. i sound silly and like a little girl everytime i say i love you to him but who cares i'll say it infront of his mother if i haveee to because

    everyone is so excited for summer but summer's bad for us we have to be apart for 3 months because we have to go back to our respected countries and families. it's sad but everytime september comes i go running back into his arms and i guess that's what makes the long distance relationship gold, the wait and the feeling that your heart's beatin so bad and fast everytime the months finish up.

  18. I never want her to forget how much I care, so I tend to say those three words often. I am here waiting for you, for us, for happily ever after. <3 T.O.E. ~ !

  19. i never get sick of hearing them : )

  20. I'm pretty sure my heart just melted.

  21. nice one thank you for sharing.

  22. It's completely real. I promise I didn't make it up. :)

    That's us. Ain't he cute? :)

  23. Treasure your love, no matter the age!!

  24. This will not work as a matter of fact, that is what I believe.

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