. somehow in a weird way that bad thing makes you feel good.. the sad thing about this is that it never ends well. the best thing would be to realize that before it's to late.. own experience!
you realize that the highs are temporary and the lows are constant...you realize that he is a drug you are addicted to and you must go to rehab...you talk to people who can help you remember the strength you have to let go and walk away...and you tell him that it's best for both of you if you end things and that you wish him the best...and just keep telling him that if it takes 5 or 10 times without getting sucked in emotionally...because im doing all of this right now to get out of this unsurvivable relationship...its either him or me...and i choose me. choose yourself!
and one more thing: when you finally get out and end it, the sadness will be temporary, but the peace and happiness that will return and flow into your soul once you release yourself will become a constant. give yourself the chance to heal, recover, forgive, remember, forget, release.
im in that right situation i can not let go but i know that the more i wait the more it will hurt in the end, its not berable right at the moment and it will be even worse when he's finally gone... my boy's going to stay abroad for a year, and there is no way that we're going to see each other in that year, so our relatiobship will end when he's leaving, it alrady determined yet.
Easier said that done when that other person is the one keeping your head above the water and you cannot afford (literally ) to let them go. I am just trying to numb myself to the whole pain of it, knowing about the other women and not having the voice to speak up or the control to protect myself (my body) from it. this is all too much for me sometimes.
someone is bad for you when they make you a worse person, not a better person; when they take away your dreams, hopes, aspirations, friends, family, because they are the only things that can exist in your life. and they need full attention. someone is bad for you when they always put themselves first, above you.
sometimes the risk is worth it. after all they do say that the relationships we didn't have and risks we didn't take will be our greatest regrets. i've had some of the most disastrous relationships imaginable for someone of nineteen but i can honestly say that i still believe in love. at the end of the day you have to decide if you'd rather hurt now or later - the benefit will 'later' is that it may never come. no one can predict the future and people never cease to amaze me, hopefully this applies to you as well.
I have learned to hold on to things that makes feel so horrible, the truth is that am happy sometimes but often very sad. How to let go and walk away is my biggest problem. So i just keep telling myself that it pays to be patient.
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unfortunately i do it
xx, yamina.
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. somehow in a weird way that bad thing makes you feel good.. the sad thing about this is that it never ends well. the best thing would be to realize that before it's to late.. own experience!
;-))
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you just keep holding onto it,cuz it makes you happy.
honestly, i really wanna know the answer.
this phrase is perfect for today. :)
you realize that the highs are temporary and the lows are constant...you realize that he is a drug you are addicted to and you must go to rehab...you talk to people who can help you remember the strength you have to let go and walk away...and you tell him that it's best for both of you if you end things and that you wish him the best...and just keep telling him that if it takes 5 or 10 times without getting sucked in emotionally...because im doing all of this right now to get out of this unsurvivable relationship...its either him or me...and i choose me. choose yourself!
I wish I could say just walk away...but we all know that is never that easy or what we end up doing.
Much love,
B
and one more thing: when you finally get out and end it, the sadness will be temporary, but the peace and happiness that will return and flow into your soul once you release yourself will become a constant. give yourself the chance to heal, recover, forgive, remember, forget, release.
I think that is amazing :)
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stick with it. it will either ruin you in the end..for a little while. or it can change into something good.
xx
i need to choose me.
This previous post sums it up for me.
'twiliGht giRl... said...
you just keep holding onto it,cuz it makes you happy.'
the end.
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walk away
is difficult... but honestly i keep holding on until the other person walks away.
im in that right situation
i can not let go but i know that the more i wait the more it will hurt in the end,
its not berable right at the moment and it will be even worse when he's finally gone...
my boy's going to stay abroad for a year, and there is no way that we're going to see each other in that year, so our relatiobship will end when he's leaving, it alrady determined yet.
Easier said that done when that other person is the one keeping your head above the water and you cannot afford (literally ) to let them go. I am just trying to numb myself to the whole pain of it, knowing about the other women and not having the voice to speak up or the control to protect myself (my body) from it. this is all too much for me sometimes.
I think I'd do it...
Maybe I'm crazy but...is there in the photo 2 guys kissing?
and how do you know someone is bad for you?
someone is bad for you when they make you a worse person, not a better person; when they take away your dreams, hopes, aspirations, friends, family, because they are the only things that can exist in your life. and they need full attention. someone is bad for you when they always put themselves first, above you.
Really take a good look and ask yourself what it is you're hanging onto so desperately...
sometimes the risk is worth it. after all they do say that the relationships we didn't have and risks we didn't take will be our greatest regrets. i've had some of the most disastrous relationships imaginable for someone of nineteen but i can honestly say that i still believe in love. at the end of the day you have to decide if you'd rather hurt now or later - the benefit will 'later' is that it may never come. no one can predict the future and people never cease to amaze me, hopefully this applies to you as well.
''Everything happen for a reason''
I think if someone was bad for me, I would stay but then again. How do I know when someone's bad for me?
I DON'T KNOW!!!!!!
Kasey
I have learned to hold on to things that makes feel so horrible, the truth is that am happy sometimes but often very sad. How to let go and walk away is my biggest problem. So i just keep telling myself that it pays to be patient.
you've to try your hardest to remember what you deserve..
Xtina!! \o/
you pray to God that you find someone else...someone better
My mind doesn't let me to stay with something bad next to me... curious actually, I don't even understand why my mind can win to my heart... :S
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