Monday, December 6, 2010

so I inactivate you


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The love you had for your ex isn’t the same as with someone new, each love is different. I think the love is just “inactive”; you can’t delete someone you truly loved. It’s almost like a facebook account, you can just inactivate your account, never delete it. If you want to and the time is right you can recreate it, but the pages have changed and so have you.

I really thought you were the love of my life. And perhaps in the future, we can be together again. So I inactivate you, try to bury my feelings for you. Because right know we're not right for each other.

forever yours.

52 comments:

  1. Wow I know the exact feeling and you defined what I feel right now so perfectly. The love I have for my recent ex will always be there because thats what love is. When you love them you love them forever just in a sort of different way.

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  2. this is so beautiful. definitely my favorite post on le love.

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  3. I get what you mean, especially since I deactivated my Facebook account for close to half a year so that I didn't have to see the guy I love.

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  4. I always say my heart can handle loving 2 people. One actively and then 2 as more like silhouettes (so they only count as half). And it proves to be true time and time again in my life. When i realize I love someone new it's as if my previous love has become only a silhouette without me noticing. I have always had room for 2.
    Then I met the one that left room for no silhouettes. Tough, but definitely worth deleting those inactive facebook accounts. ;)

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  5. hope the "inactivity" would resume... and you to tell me that its active once again - p

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  6. "so I inactivate you"

    In words perhaps, but not in Your heart Im sure...

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  7. this is my life at the moment. inactivating someone, activating someone else.

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  8. me. now.

    thank you. thank you. thank you for posting.

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  9. I think about this all the time. If my life was different & a certain someone was back in my life would the love re-activate itself? I don't know. I don't know if I even want to find out.

    Melanie's Randomness

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  10. that's exactly right.

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  11. I just wish it was that easy for me..
    Very well writtten though.

    www.toastsandspills.blogspot.com

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  12. shit, this is exactly how i feel at the moment :( u took the words outta my mouth and heart

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  13. i broke off my engagement 2 months ago. this is exactly how i feel...

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  14. yes its completely correct, every person who loves some one madly feels that its impossible to forget their loved one, but remember one thing, there is a long way to go, you may find some one better than ur ex, and it seems difficult to forget them but TIME CAN HEAL ALL THE PAIN, so think positive.
    I AM ALSO WRITING A BLOG, www.defectiveseven.blogspot.com , IF U LIKE IT THEN BE MY FOLLOWER,.

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  15. how can you compare love to a shitty facebook account?

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  16. Haha to the above comment - made my day.

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  17. This is a very attractive and interesting blog

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  18. It's one of my favorite post! It's totally the way I thing, but it's not the case of most of my friends, and I began to believe that I thought badly. So thank you!


    If you really love someone, you can never stop loving him and neither forget him, even if you're no longer with him... but it doesn't mean that you can't love someone else. Life goes on.


    p.s/ sorry for my poor english :s

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  19. A- I reactivated today just to chance it -J

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  20. This means so much to me right now. HUGE thank you for posting it! The timing is a-mazing :)

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  21. haha the comment about comparing love to a facebook account^^

    basically i agree with the second paragraph, but burying your feelings?

    you know, what i want to say is, that i don't understand you saying "i try to bury my feelings for you"
    and then "forever yours".

    it's obvious that maybe you are burying the feelings in words, but not in your heart (like someone said before).

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  22. deactivate?
    but yes, this is perfection.

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  23. for me I keep reading this over and over again, as though it was written by my ex. I hear it in his voice. but it is not. and these wont ever be his thoughts again. but for me, he is my lobster, yanno like in friends with Rachel and Ross?

    yeah. he is my 'forever yours'.

    I don't know why this particular post effects me so much. Maybe it was the co-incedental timing of finding out him and his someone new aren't doing all that well. or perhaps it's just a longing thought he may feel it too and one day 'inactivate' me again.
    but whoever you are, whoever wrote this.
    I wish you were him. my lobster.

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  24. This is so perfect for me right now. You couldn't have said it any better!

    Thank you for posing this.

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  25. funny comparison - i love it

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  26. this post just spoke to me. i know i care for you. just not enough to match yours. yet i can't completely let you go. i'm sorry. for my inadequate feelings. you have a part of me.

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  27. you are so right!

    http://fashion-potato.blogspot.com/

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  28. Last several rows looks exactly like my thoughts tonight.
    "Forever yours..."

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  29. I love your headerpic! It says everything everyone should try not to forget everyday!

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  30. That's true. Each love is unique and especial in different ways.
    xoxo
    Giovanna
    Boho Market

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  31. exactly how I feel right now...

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  32. Did you mean deactivate?

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  33. Your post is beyond pretty. It's heart-wrenchingly true and truths like these are beautiful. Thanks for writing this.

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  34. i thought my heart stopped when i read my own words on my favuorite blog! and "anonymous", i wish it was in my heart, what if it could be just as easy as deavtivate a facebook account? And yes, he's always gonna be mine, through my eyes.

    /M

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  35. you can delete your facebook account, you know. they don't want you to, and you have to go through a million steps, but believe me it's worth it. you'll get your life back!!!!

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  36. It is as though you went into my heart and my head and put my feelings to words as even I could not do. I love this entry and praise the author whomever that may be.

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  37. and i thought i was the only one with those kinda feelings and thoughts (:


    FashionAvecNanna.blogspot.com

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  38. Your post is excellent.Anyone can forget their loved ones but time may be the variation.If you really love someone, you can never stop loving him and neither forget him, even if you're no longer with him... but it doesn't mean that you can't love someone else. Life goes on.
    The world is not stopping ,it is always evolving or changing.

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