Sunday, November 24, 2013

how do I make the right decision...?

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Photo via: Mafalda-Silva

I am madly in love with him. He has the nicest smile. He has the nicest body. But he isn’t very refined. They say when you love someone, you should love them for who they are and not try to change them. But there are things about him that I cannot stand. He eats loudly. He pressures me in ways I am uncomfortable with. And he is disrespectful to loved ones at times.

My ex was never like this. He was kind, loving, nurturing, respectful, and everything else one could dream of. Why did I leave him? Because I met my current love. But is this love real? Or a facade? How do I make the right decision without hurting him or myself?

1 comment:

  1. The positive things about him that you mention sound very physical whereas the negative are very much internal. You can find another physical being that doesn't have these negative issues on the inside. Have you spoken up about feeling pressured and the things he does that make you feel uncomfortable? His response could give you the answer you're looking for.

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