Wednesday, November 14, 2012

love changes

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I remember when everything between us was spine tingling and wet palms and making out and you gave me butterflies and I made you want to stay up all night just to talk to me.

And of course, they say, life can’t go on that way. You can’t be madly, passionately in love forever. So that love changes, it morphs.

It becomes the mundane. What we have now. The kisses hello and goodbye, the
compulsory “I love yous”, the lack of sexual excitement. But it’s only been 9 months. And yes, we’ve lived together for three of them and you haven’t had a job so I’ve been supporting us both….

But is this right?

Sometime I don’t know if I love you and that brings tears to my eyes because I think it means I don’t.

But you’re the very best person I’ve ever met in my life. Boys like you don’t exist. This perfect concoction of tough and sweet and endlessly patient.

And I’m so fucking sorry but I don’t know how much longer I can do this.

But I don’t know how I could ever be without you either.

21 comments:

  1. stay and fight. TALK with him, asap. a footballteam doesnt quit playing just because the other team made the first goal - they keep playing, because the time isnt over yet.

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    1. I think its called a touchdown, but good point

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    2. It really depends on whether you're European or American. Football in the U.S. is American Football. Football in Europe is soccer.

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  2. Talk to him ! Dont give up. It might be the best decision you ever take. If he really loves you, he will make some efforts to work this out.

    Best of luck !

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  3. Money problems make that happen. Talk to him cause if u cant be without him than u still love him.

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  4. it's like i'm reading my own thoughts, thank you for this wonderful post!

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    1. Same here! It's nice to hear that other people have the same problems and hopefully some of them figure it out!

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  5. I agree with the comment "if u cant be without him than u still love him".

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  6. It might be hard to say that, but as time goes on you'll grow into aepting the fact you can't love him and leaving him will get easier each time.
    Or.
    You'll grow into love together again.
    Each of those choices is right and as long as you know that you have done, what you felt like, you won't regret anything at all. Good Luck. :)

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  7. Oh, but I look at my parents-- so completely in love that even after 30 years together, they still make out at breakfast -- and I know that settling for the comfortable mundane will never do.

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  8. This brought tears to my eyes with how close to home this hit. I can tell you that, now that I am without him, I still don't know how to be without him and letting go is practically impossible.

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  10. one thing i know for sure is, love isnt easy. and it requires work work and work. it requires patience. i ve been with my bf for 6 yrs. we ve gone through so much. there were ups and downs. but you always know when you want to fight or give up. i could never give up. he could never give up either. because we know what we have is precious. its special.

    there have been days, weeks and even months when i thought its not going to work out. i was hurt, in pain, we fought all the time. but love thats strong enough can survive. you just need to be able to make that decision. to make that choice. 9 months is a very little time to fall so crazily in love and fall back out of it. you need to discuss this with your bf. talk. its always good to talk. to share your thoughts. i think thats what got us through everything we ve been through. you need to tell him how you feel. and you need to think together, if you want to continue and improve things or stop where you are.

    if you want to talk to someone you can email me :) athousandhappythoughts@gmail.com

    good luck! and dont lose faith!

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  11. try a new stop! get to a new station!!

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  12. I think our parents and other people who have long lasting relationship can be our role models for stable relationship.Love and companionship are important factors for successful relationship.
    Importance Of Love

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  13. when you are in love there is no question about it,no wonder..they are all clear..in front of your eyes..when there is doubt, there is compromise and then love fades

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  16. Relationships do require hard work, but 9 months is pretty early to already be going through the motions. In general, if you're wondering if you should break up with someone, you've already got your answer, and it's yes. Our subconscious mind tells us when something is wrong way before our conscious mind can figure it out. Right now you're conflicted because your "gut" is telling you something your mind doesn't agree with. But it will with time. Don't stay with someone out of fear of being alone or obligation. Honesty is never unkind, even if it causes temporary pain.

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