Wednesday, August 10, 2011

what we are doing is real

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We met in the most unorthodox way possible. I had come to switzerland to visit my father, you had been living there for the past ten years. We both found our way to that club by pure chance (I had actually not considered even going that night). We flirted, we talked. We had a friend in common so it was only natural that we made conversation. Then you invited me to take some air. I refused because I knew it would be weird for that friend and because I had already invested my heart to someone back home. You never gave up. (Which is why I kind of fell for you that night). We found ourselves behind the club, kissing with ardent fever like the typical teenagers we are, giggling at every awkward touch, pretending our friends didn't even exist. This was the case for hours. I never once felt out of place, you made me feel so beautiful. When it was time to leave, we couldn't stop kissing goodbye. I remember me telling you between our pressed lips that I had to go, and in response you held my waist even tighter. I tiptoed back home, making sure not to wake up the sleeping household, and jumped in bed. Although my feet were killing me, my head spinning miles an hour, and my eyelids heavy, I couldn't sleep. I remembered the next day like it was yesterday.

My phone was blinking with a new text message. It was from you:
"Hey can I admit something: I couldn't stop thinking about you last night"
My heart started spinning. This was supposed to be a one night thing. A summer hook up. No baggage. No emotional commitment. But how could I doubt my own feelings? I knew how I felt. How I feel now. I couldn't leave you. You made it so much harder when you told me "Don't go. Stay. Stay with me," But I was leaving the next morning. We spent the whole day getting to know each other, asking questions. Being honest. It was so natural. No drama. We just fit. I remember when we giggled like idiots when you asked me to be your girlfriend and we told our friends how we felt. I didn't fall asleep the night before my flight. We texted all night. I remember sitting in the plane back home rereading all of our texts, with the goofiest grin plastered on my face. Thousands of texts. And here I am. Just five days later. 3953 miles away from you. Still your girlfriend. Terrified about us. About who we are going to be. How we are going to make this work. If it's going to work at all. But I know its going to be alright when you text me goodnight at 6 in the evening here. When I wake up, no matter the time, and you're wishing me good morning.

Here is what I sent last night when I went to sleep: "I think the worst part of this time difference thing is you're not awake when i go to bed to tell me good night."
This is what he replied at 5 this morning: "Yeah I know but I'm awake when you get up to say hello <3"

I can't wait to see you again. I'm going back in December, and when everybody I know think this isn't going to work out, i simply read a text you sent me last night:
"Hey just wanted to say, I know we didn't make a mistake. I still can't believe that what we are doing is real, but I've made mistakes before, and trust me when I say this isn't one of them. Sleep well, i'll talk to you tomorrow morning,"


  1. This CAN work out! Don't listen to your friends who say it isn't.
    I live in Germany, my boyfriend in New York. We are together since 2.5 years now and in the beginning had the same doubts about our relationship than you have now.It just seemed too crazy to do... couldn't we find someone on our own continent?
    But we didn't listen to the doubters but to our hearts.
    We just bought an apartment in Manhattan. In 4 weeks I will leave Germany and move in with him. Forever.

  2. Alexandra, that is amazing, wishing you all the best!

    I agree, dont listen to what everyone else says. As long as both of you want it to work, it can and will. I once had the same story, mine did not end like Alexandra's. But I always have hope for everyone else who experiences the same thing. I wish you the best of luck in love:)

  3. you know LDR is soo hard! everyday must adjust each other. im in a ldr and my boyfriend is in USA and im in Philippines. we'll see each other t2o years from now. ugh. but i have the patience to wait fro him even if more than two year. he's everything to me :D best luck to all ldr. ;) keep inlovin'.. :D

  4. This brought me to tears. I'm glad to hear that you're so certain about how you feel. Myself, I'm alwayy brooding and thinking way too much. "Am I really reaaally sure about this? Is this what I want" etc etc. I wish you and your sweetheart so much luck.

  5. this is so beautiful, i`m am so happy you two are making things work.

    Fellow readers of Le Love, do you believe in the universe giving you signs?
    I`ve been a cynic and very scientific person all my life but I swear every time I think about how he and I recently decided not to take a chance on a LDR i`ve been reading nothing but stories about long distance and how they`re working, and working beautifully.

  6. re reading text messages...i love doing that and i love that feeling

  7. Woooow! I love this story. It's amazing. I love how you both are so into it, how you both are willing to try. That must always be the first step, to dare being a bit crazy and try to work something out!

  8. "Distance does not ruin peoples relationships. You dont have to see each other everyday to be in love."

  9. This story is beautiful and this is what I'm going through now as well. He'll be going back to States soon and I'll only get to see him again when December comes. It's a risk to take and it's the risk we all are willing to take.

  10. miles don't mean much

  11. This is so beautiful! I am also in an long distance relationship! I'm new and I love it! He's in Berkeley going to school and I'm in Washington State also in school we met in Mexico just 3 months ago and it's perfect! I also doubted we could make this work but his words mingle in my head everyday! " you didn't make want this, I wanted this and love don't worry you are all I want" so doll this is worth it and you and your boyfriend will make it, you being so certain makes this so much better also! Just have faith and be confident in the relationship!! :) <3

  12. This can work :)

    My boyfriend (of nearly 2 years) and I met 3 years ago and started being together when I was studying in London. For the past year, we've been doing long distance because I graduated and came back to Hong Kong, but we're more in love than ever before and the relationship just keeps getting stronger and stronger despite the distance :) Now we're both trying hard to find jobs in each others' cities. I've flown over twice just for interviews and internships and will find out sometime this month if I get a job offer. Fingers crossed!

    Sorry that was so long! But best of luck to the two of you and to everyone else in LDRs xxx

  13. somehow this struck a chord and made me tear up! i wish you two all the best. you guys will work out! simply for the fact that you two are so brave. (:

  14. This is so sweet. LDRs will always both people are committed to making it work. Sounds like you two are!

  15. I'm in LDR too. I live in Europe, in Estonia and he lives in the USA, KY, Manchester. We have 7447 kilometers between us, but I don't regret this relationship. I'm happy and we love eachother. Sometimes it's hard, because we miss eachother. but it's 9 more months, before we can be together. My friends don't support me, but I know this relationship works and we get more stronger and we can make it.

    Good luck to everyone else in LDRs! :)


  16. that's so sweet, good luck for you. :) x

  17. you were able to survive summer..I guess you can still survive even at school.. love knows no boundaries.. :)

    by the way, I just followed you...can you follow back?


  18. Just remember the dirty thing you and your lover had ever made. You will no longer miss him.

  19. Such a great story! I met my boyfriend randomly while traveling as well. Distance sucks a lot. But if the relationship and the guy are worth it, you can definitely make it work.

  20. I'm always on the lookout for cheap airline tickets so my wife and I can get some alone time in a romantic location. It makes all the difference in the world to our relationship to get away and have some real one on one time!

  21. It will work, just believe!!
    My relationship just became a long distance one,
    and I'm not sure for how long since it all depends on a visa :(
    I'm having the hardest time adjusting to his physical absence, I guess its like he says (even if it makes me mad) I need to be strong.
    I'm from Guatemala and he's Australian.
    The best for everyone on a LDR!

  22. WOW this story gave me goosebumps!! what an incredible love story! with all my heart, i wish for you to last.

  23. To me, there is no other option. When you and your love find each other, you make it work. My love is in Istanbul, Turkey and I am in California. We are worlds and worlds apart. The distance won't be like that forever but true love will. Do not give up! True love only comes around when it is meant to be, everything will fall into place when it is supposed to.

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