Tuesday, June 14, 2011

when the time is right it will happen.


Ciel Photography

Realisations of love and general inspiring thoughts:

I just wanted to say I think the best people in life are the ones that get brokenhearted, time and time again and can still open their hearts to love after the exasperating pain of heart break. Those are the best kinds of people in life.
The ability to love anything and anyone is a gift. And anyone who hasn't found love yet should not fear, because it's fear that drives you to insanity and worry. But its hope that sends you to belief and opens your heart again to love and for love. And once you've found it, and really found it, Love will never let you down. It will be faithful and kind. Love will be beautiful and unpredictable. And even though I haven't found it, I feel all these things for it. I don't know why and I don't know how, but I can tell you I really do believe In love.

I just wanted to say that to anyone who is going through something right now, because I'm in a state of heart broken heartedness, and over my best friend that I have loved to the core of my soul for about 3 years of my life. But unfortunately he doesn't feel the same. He wants to find something better I presume and I'm not that. I've sometimes felt unworthy of love and inadequate, almost useless. But one day I'm gonna get over it and I'm going to find love and love will find me back. And to those who are broken, it may not seem like it now, but take me for example with such an emotional attachment like mine it cannot be overcome in a day. But I know it's gonna happen for me.

Lol I know this sounds like a motivational talk for everyone but I was just feeling inspired. I just wanted to get one of the nice things I was feeling about love off my chest. But of course I'm angry, hurt and frustrated sometimes, that's a natural emotion just know you should be all driven to smile and be happy with the thought of the hope of love.

And to those who have found love, be happy. Don't let go, hold on tight, because he or she is a keeper. And be inspired by that love, because people like myself who long to find 'the one' envy you and can't wait to be in your position.

But I say to myself everyday when the time is right it will happen.

And it will. ;)

I believe in love, do you?

34 comments:

  1. Hey, Lot of similarities in our experiences, including the time. Currently I am in a phase of denial & rejection. Your article shows lot of hope. Like it... Keep writing

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  2. Truly inspirational words. I thank you for such beautiful "enlightenment". I have practically lost my faith in relationships. I don't want to lose hope but it seems like the hurt I felt before from my breakkup was enough to make me afraid to find another person. I'm afraid to get hurt again. I had my fair share of "being with the wrong guy". But like you said, we all have to stay positive and keep our heart open. And what the time is right, the right person will come.

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    1. I feel the same way too. I went down that road. And to see my friends find love except me hurts more than anything. Now I am alone, and lonely because they all got married and have a family. We both walk a lonely path now. Well, even though you're alone, and I am alone, at least we're alone together.

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  3. Hey believer,

    I am in ur situtation too! Was recently replaced by a guy who swore he loved me no matter what....That very week he paraded her in front of me, was torture...I almost lost myself...so wanted to cut myself...crying was not enough to spill my bleeding pain...

    After about 2 weeks of that, I snapped out of it..I deserve much better than this...He is happy, so can I! I am now trying not to think about him, I continue on..laugh and joke, be with friends..counting my blessings.. Now after about 2 months, I m better...not great, but better..n improving..

    Night are lonely, but... I know that when I found my love.. I will cherish it more than anything else..

    I know there's someone out there..I mean, there has to be right?

    I wanna fall in love again...and I just can't wait.. :)

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  4. I defiantly believe in love! and yes it is very unpredictable. It seems as if once you find it there is exponential progression. You will find love and like you said it takes time to get over the old but you will find it again!

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  5. You're one of the best people in life. Thank you for being so admirering.

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  6. great story! This too shall pass, I once had the same experience. But with time I moved on and had more than one great love and though its been up and down, love is out there, waiting for you:) Right now, im very happy with the guy I am with and dont even think about my old crush at all.

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  7. what else i can say? you are really inspiring! love this to bits! xx

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  8. I got tears from reading this text. I love the hope you send to us. ... us who have opened our hearts, have been heart broken. For those of us who want the hope of finding someone who cares as much as we care, but have only found people who play with the feelings of others. For us, that after several social heart break has had to live with the questions "am I good enough?, what's wrong with me, what I missing?, this man play with me, lie him / her to me?

    I love the way you give me hope, and the way you make me whant to someday open my heart again.

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  9. i once did.
    not anymore.

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  10. Thank you. I needed this.. especially now..XOXOX

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  11. Thank you so much for this. This talked to me because my love broke up with me three weeks ago after a 2 years relationship - and in the middle of a perfect period (or so I thought). He wants too to see something else, find something better, what ever - it doesn't matter right now.

    I'm heartbroken but I'm strong and I know too that I'm going to love again and somebody is going to love me as much as my ex loved me (because he really did, and he does - it's "something missing though" he says).

    Thank you for this. I will save this story in a word document and read this when I'm feeling sad.

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  12. Was a skeptic all my life; watched it happen to everyone else around me and never thought it would happen to me, nor did I believe others' love would last--until I fell in love myself this past half year. It was so gradual, I didn't even realize it had happened. It's not the kind of obvious, frivolous, irrational love Hollywood has always given me the impression it is, instead, it's a logical love--the love that is left over long after the giddiness and delirium has faded away and what's left is an unconditional appreciation and acceptance of one another for who we are.

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  13. Thank you so much for this message! I want to believe that love will happen organically when the Universe feels I am ready and when he is ready. I want to believe that the Universe will out both of us in the right place at the right time. Sometimes I am sad and lonely and it is hard to keep the faith. I miss the guy that hurt me.

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  14. Wow, someone took the words out of my mouth and mind! This is how I feel right now.

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  15. i'm going through the same thing. 2.5 years gone. I'm in love with love as well. For now we have to let our hearts heal but it will find us again!

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  16. I'm jumping into the "I too can relate" bandwagon. Just yesterday i told myself that whatever happens between my best friend and i, i'll accept it. Although we're dating no one, my heart is slowly accepting the fact that someday we might not end up being together and/or he might fall for someone better than i. It honestly hurts because i so truly wished i was that person. I still do...

    I know that the future is unpredictable, but whatever happens when it's my turn to be happy again, i want to make sure i'll cherish it with all my heart. Good people like you and i only deserve so much more. Thank you for your words. It means a lot.

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  17. Today I removed my first stitch. I found solace in admitting that my 8 year relationship is over.

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  18. i believe in love cuz i'm in love :)

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  19. Just wanted to let you know, someone copied everything you wrote and posted it on facebook as if they wrote it.

    You're words are beautiful, someone shouldn't be using them and taking credit for it honey.

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  20. I just started a blog about my so-called love life (I would love if you could find time to visit it!). But I just wanted to say this is so inspiring. I'm only 15, but what you said has really touched me. I'm definitely following you! Again, I'd love if you would visit my blog: http://hemakesmefeellike.blogspot.com/

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  21. I miss being in love.. thank you for sharing your thoughts and your feelings... I wish I could have the courage and strenght to allow myself to love withoutbeing scared of the pain. thank you again.

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  22. I love your blog and can, like so many others, really relate.

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  23. I'm in love with someone, 6 years is it now. And he is in love with me he said. But he cheats all the time. And not once but a lot. So I gave him up a year ago, I couldn't handle it anymore, and now he has a new girlfriend, but he cheats a lot, and one time with me. I feel terrible but she doesn't know, and I won't tell.

    Because how worse it sounds, I want them to break up, he causes her so much pain without she even notices, and I.. He stays in contact with me in, talking about how much he miss me and wants me.
    I keep running back to him, how much i hate myself for it. One day I'm gonna find someone who can makes me smile like he do, but till then I don't know it yet.

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  24. thank you for this post, i think you just saved my relationship :)

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  25. i needed this...

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  26. Hi guys. Thanks for you comments. I'll right more when I feel inspired I guess!

    Peace chicas x

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  27. :O Lol to anonymous comment about the Facebook comment lol they can have it! As long as it's on this beautiful original page with the blog I love, with beautiful hearts I don't mind ;) seriously guys your comments mean alot u know. Thank God for LeLove ah! X

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  28. thank you for sharing your optimistic point of view and not giving up in love... i will not give up either....

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  29. I really felt like you were talking about me :) Back in the days i was just like that. Loving forever and forever brokenhearted. But still i believed in love. And i kept fighting and learning with every lover i had. And i think that that really inspired me and made me think that when the time is right i would find my soul mate. My true love. I will never give up on Love. even if i get my heartbroken again. That's just the way i am i guess. I really believe that we can find our soul mate. Our person. The one... I also think that he or she might not be like us, don't even like the things we do or whatever but that's not bad. Remember that we can complete our selves and learn so many beautifull things with those who show us the things we don't know of. <3<3

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  30. aww this really inspired me. love this post! xx

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  31. Wow, I just got inspired. I'm new to the dating scene, spent most of my years not really worrying about love. Now, I've joined the band wagon, perhaps more so because I am ready to fall in love...ready for what all it has in store for me.

    Met a few guys this past year, but only one brings butterflies to my stomach. Unfortunately, he wants to just be friends. I know in my heart of heart, I am what he wants...I guess time shall tell.

    Until then, thanks for your words. When the time is right, nothing will stop it from happening.

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