Tuesday, June 8, 2010

how do you know...


justawildthought

how do you know if you're in love?


-brittany

56 comments:

  1. Love is not a maybe thing. You just know when you love someone.

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  2. When I realised I loved him, I knew because I've never felt this way about anyone before and because I don't think I ever could again if I lose him.

    It sucks when people say you'll just know, but that's the truth. It just hits you out of nowhere.

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  3. you think of the person everytime, even when you eat, dream, work, showering, .. you spent every waking hour thinking of that person.. It consumed you!! That's is called when you're in LOVE :D

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  4. I read somewhere that love feels like a bunch of little fish swimming through your veins. It totally does.

    http://zeolitefuhrman.blogspot.com

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  5. you're in love when you have a strong, deep care and affection for someone, and you're bursting to let them know, and you want to shout it from the rooftops and let everyone know :) I know I had a really hard time keeping it in, and I was really nervous to tell him, but I just had to :)

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  6. You just know. Your heart will feel delicate, secure and at home in his hands. And your soul, your soul will be quiet. Content to have found him. You will know.

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  7. when you realise you can't live without him/her

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  8. when u stop asking that question:)

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  9. i learnt what love was when distance pulled us away and he fell for her.

    love hurts.

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  10. When you can waiting for his mail by the whole day and when you checking your mailbox 100 times a day.

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  11. i knew i loved him when i would wake up each morning and wonder where he was even though we have never spent a night together. when i found myself thinking of him whether i was emotional or emotionless. i knew i loved him when i just wanted to spend time with him only on days that ended with "y".

    i knew i loved him when i could not explain why i felt so strongly about him. when all i could say was, "i love him because i love him."

    i knew it was love when i love him not to be loved in return.

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  12. you know you'r in love when you cannot imagine to be with someone else but him.
    this might sound as a cliche, but you know you'r in love when you can't go to sleep because reality is better than your dreams.
    you don't have a reason for loving him, you just do.

    - mq

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  13. - You know that you're in love when you start to ask questions like "How do you know that you're in love?"

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  14. you can be infatuated by someone, you can want to hear from them every day, you can be with them and have massive butterflies and never stop thinking about them, but its not love. sometimes with people you are fascinated by, your gut feeling just doesn't completely agree with you, there's something wrong, something doesn't fit right. you can't live with this person forever.

    love is when the gut feeling agrees with you.

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  15. 'love' and 'in love' are two completely different things

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  16. I get dizzy when i kiss him, and sometimes my heart jumps when i look at him or he at me. I want to be with him forever, and I know i would lose my whole world if i lost him. Maybe, maybe one day i would love again. but i'd prefer to only love him and nobody else. When i think about how it would be if a lost him somehow, i start crying .

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  17. love is so many different things to so many different people. you should just express what you feel and hope its mutual :)

    KeepItFvncy,
    M.E.

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  18. Love is when you can't think of anything to day dream about. Or when you can't conjure up any fantastic scenario when your trying to fall asleep at night. Because, before, HE was what you were day dreaming and fantasizing about.
    Which is when you know you've found the thing that TRULY makes you happy. When all of your other dreams seem nice, but not nearly as wonderful as the one that has already come true.

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  19. for me, it was when i realized that i would finally give up my fear of total vulnerability, in the name of pursuing total and complete happiness. with him.

    it was also when i realized that i didn't just want this person, i needed this person, in order to live a full Life. that with this person, a wonderful Life awaited. that with this person, a Life of Love is what was in the cards. that with this person, anything was possible, and everything was worthwhile.

    but truly, like all the commenters above me, you feel it.

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  20. There's so many inspiring pics on your blog =)

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  21. As everyone else has said, you'll know. I think it's different for everyone, but if it's any help, this is what it's like for me:
    It feels like your heart is swelling, ready to burst. It feels as though a warm ache is spreading across your chest. It feels as if an eternity with him would not be long enough. His chest is the only place you feel truly at home. And after not speaking to him for a day, simply hearing his voice induces a sigh of relief.
    He is your sanctuary.

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  22. You'll know it within yourself.

    You'll love him for what he is, no matter what his flaws are, his small bad habits that you want him to change or anything that you THOUGHT you would've disliked in a guy. But for him, he becomes an exception for some reason. That is, love.

    You'll love him for the best parts, his goofiness and how he's made you smile so hard no matter how cheesy and perhaps cliche the words he's used. It seems right and sincere from him.

    You will love him as a whole. You wouldn't care, you would take him with you, the good and the bad.

    He's the person you want to tell the best parts of your day to every week after a long tiring day.

    He's the person you'll fall in love with over and over for many different reasons.

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  23. You are talking to them like you do every night when you realize you have to stop yourself from saying you love them because it for some reason is trying to come out. It surprises you and then you easily accept it.

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  24. that same question i ask myself always....

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  25. My friend once send me this quote.

    “A lot of people wonder how you know you're in love. Just ask yourself this one question: "Would I mind being financially destroyed by this person?"” -Ronnie Shakes

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  26. obsesiĆ³n, this is not love

    http://maybeyoushouldnt.blogspot.com/

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  27. you'll just know. You won't question it

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  28. There's no criterea, no questions you can ask yourself and then say "Yes, I do this and this, I would do this and this, I think or feel this or that way... this means I'm in love." Hah. No way.
    You just know and this knowledge is the weirdest phenomenon on earth. But you do.

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  29. he gives you this feeling that makes your heart glow and you feel you're gonna explode and you can't breathe

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  30. My question exactly. And I don't know who or what to believe.

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  31. They say that you JUST know; but I don't have the slightest idea.

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  32. You'll know when you no longer have to ask :)

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  33. you know your in love someone because you can no longer rationally explain how you feel. it's beyond lust and the obsessive urge to be near them all the time. the realization you are in love can happen in an instant. but might take much longer to admit out loud. being in love is crazy, and passionate, and completely overwhelming.

    love is what is left after the passion of being in love fades away. the calm after the storm.

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  34. be it cliche or not, you just know....

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  35. Oh, you know.
    You just know.
    If you keep asking yourself if you're really in love, then chances are you aren't.
    Love is not a maybe thing.

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  36. you dont ever know. not really. you never know who you're going to meet. emotions are fickle things. love is just a mixture of adoration, inspiration, comfort, infatuation and addiction. in the best way possible. most people think infatuation is love. its not. the fact is, i dont think love exists in a pure form. but i still feel it. im in love. not because i wait for his phone calls (i do), or want to see him every day (i do) or get butterflies when he kisses me still (i do). its everything. and you'll never really know. like you'll never really know if God exists. i trust that he does. and im in love.

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  37. I think being in love is not only the butterflies you get or missing him every second you are apart.. It's adoring everything about him, loving his flaws and accepting him like he is.. And sometimes is hard to accept some things about him or learn to love some of his bad habits, but these are the hings that make him the person he is and the person you love...
    Actually I'm just trying to figure out love. It's damn complicated! :)

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  38. Well partially you just know. You have this feeling and you have that feeling the next day too.

    But also, for me,
    If I know that even if we broke up, I'd still want the best for him, then I love him.

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  39. "We are ment to lose the people we love. How else would we know how important they are to us?"

    When he left me - I knew.

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  40. I knew it was love when i could feel him. He is with me in my thoughts everyday. He moved to another continent. But I felt him in everything I did. I'd think, "H would love this," "wonder what he's doing now.." I can almost feel his body wrapped around mine as I fall asleep alone in bed. He has ended things between us. We haven't spoken in a week. And I wonder if and when I will stop feeling him...

    I'm not sure you ever really know for sure. just listen to your heart.

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  41. When you ask questions like these and hope for comments to point out things that make you believe you're in love, you're not. You just wanna be.
    When you hope for comments to prove that you're not in love because realizing it would turn your world upside down, chances are pretty big you are in love.

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  42. You suddenly see the world differently, like everything is melting together into this big pool of light. You can't fall asleep because you're tossing and turning and you feel like you have to move, jump, run, something that would act as an outlet for this emotion. Nothing particularly spectacular needs to happen, nothing needs to sweep you off your feet, no miracle has to occur.
    You could spend 4 hours just watching him drive his car or do his homework or anything, no talking, no nothing, just watching him, and never get bored.
    You feel like you are just biding your time until you see him again, like everything else is peripheral, like you can go to school or work and do whatever you need to do and its all fine because there's him, just him, and for some reason he makes none of it really matter.

    At least that's how it was for me.

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  43. if you question it; you dont.
    if there is no question about it; you are.

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  44. It's a matter of feeling. You feel so connected to them, like nothing can forcibly tear you apart.
    It takes you that place past infatuation, around the corner from lust, to a small, cottage road. Theres a lot of bumps along the way, but the trip for the most part is magical.

    Everything feels right with you.
    Nothing disagrees.
    Theres no question of whether or not you do, or you don't. It's just that feeling. Theres a moment when it happens, and then you realize yourself changing...and then its hit you. Planted its seeds deep within you, and the vines are working their way out, so to speak.

    It can be wonderous, but it can also hurt like a bitch.

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  45. when you want to spend each and every day starring at his eyes, which light up when he looks at you.

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  46. everything felt right. my life felt complete. i had warm fussy feelings all of the time. i couldn't stop smiling & it was almost embarrassing. i had butterflies every time i heard his voice or thought of him for that matter. i felt like skipping every where i went. if i wasn't with him i longed to be with him. i didn't care about his past. none of it mattered. i wanted him just as he was. i felt comfortable yet so nervous around him. i let myself become vulnerable(which is a sure sign for me) i could be with him forever. i couldn't explain why i had these feelings for him. they just were.. i just knew..
    & sometimes you think you're in love but you don't realize until it ends that all along it was just infatuation.
    it might take losing them forever or just for a short while before you realize your true feelings.

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  47. I hope you find out how you know.
    I always feel that I find out what love is, after it has flown.
    xx

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  49. Almost all the comments above describe the feeling of loving someone, the feeling of being in love is different. I think it's right that when you love someone you'll just know, but I don't nessecarily think you know when your IN love? If that makes sense?

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  50. I don't know how I knew it, there was just like there came a day when I thought "I should tell him I love him", but I must've started to love him before that. I dunno. It just came. It feels like, well, not butterflies in my stomach, not very crazy. It's more deep, caring, knowing I'd do anything for him, the feeling that I'm safe, content. I am calm and not in a hurry anymore. To use a well-known phrase: it feels like I'm home. I don't want anyone else, I don't even look on other men. I'm totally into him without it being crazy and wild and unhealthy.

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  51. how do you know when you're not in love anymore? -rcloy

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  52. it just happens. the more natural it comes to me the better result it will show.

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  53. it would be unquestionable

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