Tuesday, November 17, 2009

lost hope


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I've lost hope in love. I'm done. I can't deal with anymore broken hearts. I'm so fucking done.
I can't handle anymore nights crying over some asshole.
-Teresa

50 comments:

  1. I get what you're talking about. It takes time. it's hard.
    but it is only thanks to these experience that i've got strong, or better: stronger than before. Definitely. I needed them

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  2. Do you have an account on weheartit.com? If you do, what's your name?

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  3. It hurts so bad.
    But in the end it will be worth it.
    Because you'll find someone who treats you good. I hope so. And I hope so too. I'm not done with love. I'm just done with crying.

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  4. In time, you will be ready again, but the process takes time.

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  5. It's easy to say but so hard to do. I don't know how many times I've said that, but all the roads leads to him. And i know that i deserve better. And i always say that i won't be taken as a fool but i let him do this to me and every time i see HER i just want to scream. I don't deserve this, i really don't but my heart doesn't get that. I just want to be over him. I can't take this.I'm really hurting, and it aches in my heart. And i feel sick in my stomach. I don't know what to do. I just want the aching to stop.

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  6. let it be. it is not easy, we all know. accept this pain in your heart with kindness, accept all your love. see the beauty. this will pass, you also know that. and, anytime, you will be in love again. :)

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  7. No hope because
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sbLjM2NloaI

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  8. if there is anything you shouldn't be done with it, it is love.

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  9. the hardest part is to explain to yourself :it's over. when you handle it then there's hope to move on..

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  10. the meaning of love is so abstract nobody knows the true definition of it. everyone has his or her own interpretations. all's not lost, it's only time that is lost. i'm sure you'll find someone who truly treasures you. :)

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  11. We all need to recognize (and avoid) the assholes. Love is not the problem.

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  12. awww .. i've been there once .. now i finally see glimpses of light ..

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  13. Winston Churchill said "When your going through hell, keep going"

    You can never ever give up on yourself, because they do not deserve the power to do that to you.

    Pick your self up, spoil yourself and remember to always be that lovable person he fell in love with.
    The right one will come....
    Peace,
    L

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  14. this makes me so sad, no one should ever make someone else lose hope in love

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  15. "It's easy to say but so hard to do. I don't know how many times I've said that, but all the roads leads to him. And i know that i deserve better. And i always say that i won't be taken as a fool but i let him do this to me and every time i see HER i just want to scream. I don't deserve this, i really don't but my heart doesn't get that. I just want to be over him. I can't take this.I'm really hurting, and it aches in my heart. And i feel sick in my stomach. I don't know what to do. I just want the aching to stop."


    i feel you.
    this is pretty much my exact situation.
    and it hurts,
    more than anything.

    but it will get better.
    i don't know if im sure about this,
    or even if i should follow anyones advice,
    but its almost more miserable to lose yourself in your sorrows than to lose him.
    you're better than this.
    and so am i.
    so good luck to the both of us...

    maybe we're meant to find someone else.

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  16. y'all are soo kind. thanks for all the encouraging words. maybe one day someone can change everything. just maybe.

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  17. "It's easy to say but so hard to do. I don't know how many times I've said that, but all the roads leads to him. And i know that i deserve better. And i always say that i won't be taken as a fool but i let him do this to me and every time i see HER i just want to scream. I don't deserve this, i really don't but my heart doesn't get that. I just want to be over him. I can't take this.I'm really hurting, and it aches in my heart. And i feel sick in my stomach. I don't know what to do. I just want the aching to stop."



    this is my exact story, but it wasn't all his fault we both fucked up fucked our friendship up. now i don't know if it wil ever be ALLRIGHt but its getting better i promiss time makes hit hurt less and new people come along. No i don't think you will ever forget about him or how you felt and i hope you don't but like the snow we get in winter it all melts in the spring

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  18. i absolutely feel you. its what i have to face right now too. i am crying since sunday.. and sometimes i feel so sick and sad that i cannot cry anymore. i have been seeing someone since this summer and we agreed on being friends because he doesnt want to have a serious relationship. his problem is that he cant be faithful and i knew. but still i fell i love.. we started sleeping together. he got me the keys to his apartment.. i cooked for him, we laughed soooo much. i felt intimate for the first time and i am 25. last saturday he treated me like shit. invited me to a club and when i got there, i saw him make out with some girl he promised he wasnt into. its not only that he isnt faithful but also he lied. and all i can think of are the moments when everything seemed so perfect.. the closeness.. and my decision to give love another chance.

    i am so lost right now. and hurt. and i dont believe in anything good anymore. hoping for some miracle that makes me see, i did mean something to him.
    i cannot sleep, i cannot eat. i am not here.

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  20. we all have been there. i am so sorry. there is no worse feeling in the world than this. it's so hopeless, and yet we do it to ourselves over and over again. i just wish i understood why. i am so sorry. we all know what you're going through.

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  21. i am so sorry.
    i know those nights that seem to be endless and even when you sleep all you do is dream of it.
    when your heart hurts so much it feels like someone is slowly squeezing it to death from the inside.
    when every minute of the day is another minute you have to feel so hurt and helpless.
    or when for one glorified second, minute, hour... you forget... and then it just comes crashing right back down on you so you can't breathe.
    those are the days, weeks, months, years that you don't think you'll ever be able to love again. that's it, no more. i've sworn off love before... because it hurt too much.

    but i think, maybe, that those who feel so deeply and hurt so deeply, are also the ones blessed to love the most. it took me a long time to figure this out. took me realizing that swearing off love didn't stop my heart from producing love... love that could go nowhere until i felt like i would burst if i didn't find someone to give it to... thats what i'm afraid of now, not to love... but that i won't find someone who wants all of it. but i'm hopeful.

    i imagine you've heard this, and i know it didn't mean much to me in my darkest hours... but one day the hurt will ease a little. and the next day a little more. and one day you WILL be ok... and then sometime after that you will be more than ok... you'll be ready to love again. don't lose hope. hang on... and remember we that hurt the most, are also destined to love the most too.
    <3

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  22. this is exactly what i said last night

    it's done

    one can only be so flexible

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  23. get out of my head before i charge rent. this is too close to on point its frightening.

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  24. Ahh, I remember feeling EXACTLY like that. Being so fed up with it all, and you know they're just jerks anyway. One of the reasons I've been on a "break" from guys, and I'm loving it, for the most part. Sometimes we just need a break...
    Hope you feel better, we all know what it's like.

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  25. This post is exactly how I feel right now. I've completely lost hope in love. And it's awful, the feeling of losing hope in LOVE. Love is our existence.

    I can't handle how badly I want love. And the agony of discovering He was just another asshole...when I thought He was a good one. He fooled me, and I fell for it.

    I've put my guard up again...Maybe I never had it down? But I'm not able (or willing?) to trust any guy because even the ones that seem like good guys--seem to be great actors--and fool me. And I fall for it. I thought I had good discernment.

    I usually can pick up on if his intentions are good or not...but now I have come to doubt myself. How will I be able to open up my heart again, without the fear of heartache? Will I ever be able to fully trust a guy again?

    Some people say to stop looking for love--and it will happen. Not on my timing, God's timing. But how do I stop searching for, longing for, anxiously waiting for & hoping for something that I want so badly? I suppose I am 'looking for love in all the wrong places.'

    Le Love thank you for this post--it's therapy. It is reassuring that I'm not the only one going through this...

    P.S. Those are some wise words Kai. Thank you.

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  26. I think this blog, needs a male voice, not just female ideals.

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  27. I hate being broken hearted. But actually I love it; I love that I trusted someone enough to have my heart in the first place. You never know how much you gave them until it starts to hurt. And if it didn't hurt, that would mean there were no feelings there to hurt in the first place. What kind of relationship doesn't have feeling? Hurting is good, it means you're human, and honest with your emotions.

    And I love the escape (because you probably dodged a bullet there love).

    You're young! And beautiful! And FREE! Strive to be happy! Be happy with you! Be happy with now! Be happy with the loves that you do have in your life (friends, family, good books, red wine, your dog/fish/cactus) they are the ones that deserve your attention, everything else can wait.

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  28. I just want you to give my empathy by the ether waves... I lived a moment like yours an year ago, it's been hard, but I'm stronger and now I know a lot of things about myself because of that bad feeling... It seems strange I know... but it's true..

    I'm writing from Rome, my name is Maris, thanks for your blog, it's really inspiring to me :)

    hold on *.*

    Maris

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  29. you know what? so have i. and the minute i realized i really, REALLY don't care anymore was probably one of the finest moments of my life.

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  30. I am on the same boat! Hope you feel better!

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  31. Those could be my words from yesterday.

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  32. Time and time again I want to lose hope in love, but it's there. It's prevelant. It's suffocating and yet it's invisible. I can't seem to escape its grasps. I want to give up hope in love, but it just won't let me go.

    I know how you feel.
    Even being in love comes with its broken hearts.

    That's the irony of love.

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  34. Don't give up. You have to get through these assholes and bad experiences, because when you meet the right one- and you will- it will be so beautiful and perfect and happy and your heart will be so full. i promise!

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  35. so know how you feel, I don't think I can go there again, the crying over an asshole part. It does hurt. I hope you feel better.

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  36. wow i completely know how you feel.

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  37. such a painful place to be...
    i feel her pain...

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  38. I'm right there... I'm so sorry...

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  39. I know what you are feeling now, i feel the same thing.
    I think i cant believe in love anymore. Every time i fall in love i broke my heart too...
    So many people feel exactly the same way... its so weird, why we can forget all the past and move on? and find someone to be happy?
    hard thing to do.. i guess...
    **
    Sorry for the bad english!

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  40. You really have to stop thinking what could have been or where you fuked up because you will do your head in with all these useless question marks. Think about the good times, go and get drunk. I remember when I was a lost broken hearted soul and I drank my sorrows away. It really helped to numb the pain... Everyones been hurt before but at the end of the day, please remebrr that you've got a loving family, two arms, two legs and an immune system strong enough to fight a broken heart.

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  42. please, don't stop believing in it. i know i don't know you and i don't know your storie, but i've also gone through bad experiences, but we don't have to stop trying. believe me.
    Cristina from Spain

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  43. been there
    done that
    .. a lot

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