Thursday, August 20, 2009

love yourself


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43 comments:

  1. Not only that, but you yourself can't love someone completely until you love yourself. It's the truth.

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  2. I don't love myself, but strangely enough, I am loved.

    Maybe they see more than I do.

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  3. Well..someone may love you even if you don't love yourself..but you sure are not going to believe it or truly enjoy it...

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  4. that reminds me of a song quote from RENT...
    ... but love's not a three-way street you'll never share real love until you love your self-I
    should know

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  6. I agree. I think also if you don't love yourself, you don't recognise how much other people care.
    I know people who shy away from the world because of a lack of self confidence and all that does is make them feel worse. It creates a cycle where when they do venture out into the big world, they feel like they're out of the loop and incompetent.

    I've noticed this in some friends lately and I really wish they could see how much they have to offer.

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  7. S. Kahlon said...

    Not only that, but you yourself can't love someone completely until you love yourself. It's the truth.


    absolutely

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  8. My best friend says this to me all the time and I can see its truth... sometimes!

    This is a gorgeous blog, congratulations!

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  9. I find it harder to love myself if nobody loves me. It's a lot more difficult than it sounds.

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  10. As anonymous said. It's hard to love yourself when you feel nobody loves you... it's not that easy. You can try hard, but in the end, if you don't feel something coming your way, it's sad...

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  11. Ce blog est incroyable!
    ** http://leawiest.blogspot.com/ **

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  12. a boy who i loved with all my heart asked me if i loved myself and i said no. he said that it was strange because he said he loved me so much.

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  13. I kinda agree with Anon and Yves. It's not that easy to love yourself when there is no one there.

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  14. no one is going to see you if you don't see yourself...


    :)
    xo

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  15. I disgree, I've had depression since I was eleven and ever since then I've been unable to love or even like myself.
    I met my fiance a few years ago and he also has had depression for years, and for that same amount of time his mother drilled it into him that "no one is going to love you if you don't love yourself".
    I love this man more than anyone could comprehend, and certianly more than he can comprehend.
    We are slowly learning that we are worthy of something so spectacular, warming and beautiful. We are worthy of each others love, even if we find it difficult to love ourselvs.

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  16. I used to think that unrequited love was the most difficult kind to deal with. Now I know it is much harder to love someone who cannot love themselves - because their heart just isn't open enough to take all the love you have to give them.

    Rachel - I applaud you and your fiance. I don't know how you do it, but your love must be pretty big to make it work. :)

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  17. I just wanna say that this is truly the most amazing blog I've ever seen. I'm always leaving here with a smile!

    keep up the good work!

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  18. i love that quite! its fabulous and possibly true lol. xoxoxoxo

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  19. the first thing you gotta do before love someone is to love yourself `couse if you dont love yourself you can`t give it to the otherone, and you can`t pretend wait for someone love you. =) :P

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  20. I agree but to an extent !. That's basically the same as saying, if you don't respect yourself or your body, then how will anyone for that matter, respect you? hehe :D

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  21. Please answer me this:
    Why should it matter? When you love someone you dont think much of yourself anyways. And it is not about you anymore. It is about that person or persons and you want them to be happy. Just beacause you don't love yourself doesnt meen nobody else can. That's just silly. Just as long as you dont hate yourself, it is sad of course, but very selfcentered cause then you are to busy looking at everything that is wrong with yourself, when you could be looking at all the beauty around you. You might miss out on how wonderful someone are. If everybody just looked around themselfes, they might see that the things that bother them doesn't really matter.
    It is truly amazing to be alive. Do you not think so aswell?<33

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  22. I agree 100%. I used to be confident and happy with myself. I got along wonderfully with my family, had plenty of friends and was rather popular with the boys. After gaining some weight and having some personal problems, my confidence completely plummeted. I hate myself more than anyone in the world. The idea of someone actually loving me seems like a far away thought. I have almost convinced myself that the possibility won't exist. I don't get along that great with my friends and family anymore, and seem to repel the opposite sex. It took me a long time to realize that it's not my looks or personality that are failing me, it's the inability to love myself. Who would want to love someone that has such dire hatred for themselves? It's a long road, but hopefully we can learn to love ourselves so others can love us back.

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  23. I agree, and I also agree that you can't love someone else if you don't love yourself. Because, if you love someone, why bother that person with a person you don't love?

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  24. Hm... but then again: I love myself more now when I've found my other love. I am more confident and I care more.

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  25. i couldnt agree more!!! sometimes people just dont realize it, incl. myself, thanx for reminding ;D

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  26. That's so true!
    And I know it's true but I sometimes still forget. I think this is the most important kind of love you have and can give yourself! By loving yourself you except all your flaws and you'll eventually show it! This makes it easier for people to except you, and just love you the way you are!

    - SKITZO-FASHION

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  29. something im dealing with. thanks^__^

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  30. http://snapdragonsandteapots.blogspot.com/2008/08/cynicism.html
    I'm better now... And it's true. No one's going to love you the way you deserve to be loved until you appreciate yourself, and let go of whatever it is that makes you not like yourself very much.

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  31. I don't believe it's true at all. I've always had very low selfesteem and never learned to love myself 100% but people have still fallen in love with me. I believe you have to like yourself but I often don't love myself cos i'm very hard on myself but some people still fell for me so i don't agree.

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  32. I don't agree. I loved someone with my whole heart and he didn't love himself. he loved me more than himself. he didn't love himself so much that he tried to end his life. you can be loved and not love yourself.
    but loving yourself is a good path to some kind of happiness.

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